We do need to discuss this, because this is how we build a culture where the only shame is for being a bully or seeking to marginalise others because of who they are or who they love.

If you are LGBTQ+ you might be surprised at the support you may receive in your peer group, workplace and family if you come out. When I transitioned in 1980 I felt that I had to move out of the area where I grew up because I felt shame about who I was, but when I approached all my old friends their only response was “It’s about time, shame you don’t drink, you could shout us a beer!”.

If you are LGBTQ+ look inside to see all the wonderful things you are. Your identity and your sexuality are also part of that wonderful self.