Comments on: ‘We’re all there to masturbate together’: inside the world of solosexuals

By: MDS

MDS — Tue, 10 Jul 2018 09:37:34 +0000

There’s a certain irony in how the ‘gay community’ goes on about discrimination, but as a gay bator it’s amazing how quickly the so called community drops you, soon as they find out you’re not into oral or anal sex. The blank look of puzzlement on guy’s faces when you say you don’t suck or fuck – a concept that they just can’t understand. And then a polite exit, never to be seen again.
Re the 1980’s wankers clubs, they only started up because of AIDS, not because of the small minority of men who prefer to bate – most guys who went to them still really wanted to fuck and suck, and longed for a time when they could get back to penetrative sex.

By: Nik

Nik — Tue, 10 Jul 2018 02:35:47 +0000

That’s an interesting article but framing it like a sexuality I’m not sure is helpful. Sexual preference is only one part of a greater convergence of what creates sexual orientation.

By: Bryan

Bryan — Mon, 09 Jul 2018 23:39:58 +0000

Its always been there.
Those like myself that lived through the scary plague days of the 80s remember the jack off clubs and nights that started to pop up everywhere. They were a way to have contact without fear of contracting disease.
More power to you