Can you please start caring about donors’ preferred names and pronouns? I’m resigned to the fact you’re still going to be obsessed with my AGAB in a medical sense, but it would be such a small amount of effort to make a donor – someone volunteering their time and precious bodily fluids – actually feel respected and welcomed.

Love,
A donor who hasn’t been back for a few years because it’s so dehumanising to be deadnamed and misgendered every single visit