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Agoraphilia, the technical term for the sizzle of electricity that passes from your eyeballs to his and back again, only to emerge in your gut. Where the sexual tension you taste in the air builds and tells you that you鈥檙e in the right place – as if the shuffling prompted by the opening of the restroom door and the group of gentlemen nonchalantly milling about the urinals with very little actual urination going on wasn鈥檛 enough to clue you in.听
Or going on a 鈥渂ush walk鈥� with a Grindr date, which is actually a thinly veiled excuse to give each other a gobby on the go, in between dodging tree roots and fellow 鈥渂ush walkers鈥�, who are mostly out to actually walk the bush.听
鈥淲hat if you got caught?!鈥� was the fascinated question to that revelation – 鈥淚 don鈥檛 know, to be honest! It鈥檚 never happened though I have had a few close calls but that鈥檚 the attraction, that鈥檚 what brings the excitement, the possibility of getting caught.鈥�
The Possibility of Getting Caught is the fun of Agoraphilia
It鈥檚 a common theme the people that anonymously contributed to this piece shared between them and seemingly one of the main attractions to this particular kink, for which is Agoraphilia.
Agoraphilia, which is a Greek word made up of a combination of the word agora, meaning public place or assembly, and philia, meaning love or attraction – hence the urge to park a car and go down to the woods today, where you鈥檒l be sure to find a big surprise!
Besides the obvious dangers of getting caught by the authorities and ending up with a smacked bottom, along with fines and depending on in which you were getting publicly frisky in (or indeed, if you happened to be in the late eighties), a possible jail term.
Waiting And Willing
But other, less obvious issues can arise.
Like the shocking self revelation one contributor had about how much time one can while away whilst waiting for a toilet door to open.听
鈥淚t occurred to me out of the blue one day while sitting in a city toilet, waiting and willing the door to open and for someone, anyone to come in so that I could get my release and move on with my day, just how much time I spent in the pursuit of hot urinal action with a stranger and an erection,鈥� said one contributor.听
鈥淚t actually really shocked me when I added it all up, enough to make me stop for a long time, though I sometimes can鈥檛 help walking into a random toilet hoping that I鈥檒l be greeted by a burley gentleman with rough hands and a rougher disposition, who is lingering a little too long鈥�
Beaches, not all of them nudist, can attract a certain crowd too. One contributor details dalliances amongst the rocks and bushes at a certain beach near Lismore, which apparently goes off during the annual Tropical Fruits New Years celebration in the Northern NSW area – you don鈥檛 have to wander far off the beaten track to find a willing co-conspirator!
What about sand!?听
鈥淵es, sand can be ouchy鈥�
George Michael Made It Kinda More Acceptable
And we all remember George Michael, bless him, he who was caught red handed in a in 1998 and then wrote a hit pop song about the experience.听Outside听also ended up being his coming out song, confirming what many had whispered about for many years.
Michael鈥檚 decision to own the moment and turn it into one of power resulted in many with the same proclivities to relax within themselves a bit鈥� and resolve to keep their eyes peeled for sneaky hot cops.
This is the first of an occasional series on The World Of Kink.听
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